The Danger of Becoming Who Hurt You
We’ve all experienced it. The family member who makes a sarcastic comment instead of having an honest conversation. The coworker who leaves someone out of an email chain because they’re…
The People Who Drain the Room
One of the most common phrases we hear in life is this:“Is the glass half-empty or half-full?” At first glance, it sounds simple. Maybe even cliché. But the older I…
When it Hurts to Remember
I was watching The Sheep Detectives this weekend, and there was a moment that just stopped me. One of the sheep said,“But it hurts to remember.” And the older sheep…
Are They Getting the Rest of You… or the Best of You?
I’ve been sitting with a question lately that I can’t seem to shake: Are the people we come home to getting the rest of us… or the best of us?…
More Than Fine
I’ve been a fan of Switchfoot for a long time. Like… before it was cool long time. Their music has always had this way of sneaking past the surface and…
The Power of Silence
We don’t talk about silence enough. Maybe because it feels uncomfortable.Maybe because it doesn’t give us quick answers.Maybe because in a world that rewards noise, silence feels like we’re falling…
Finding Where We Fit
For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted two things at the same time. To fit in.And to be different. I’ve always loved creating. Thinking differently. Seeing possibility where…
Pay Attention to the Work, Not the Noise
If you’re doing meaningful work, the noise will eventually show up. Opinions.Side comments.People who seem very invested in talking about what you’re doing, even though they aren’t actually doing it…
Why We Should Celebrate People Even After They’ve “Made It”
I recently had a conversation with a very accomplished friend. Someone who has done incredible things. Books. Impact. Influence. He thanked me for sharing about his newest book. Not his…
When Everything Feels Heavy (And You’re Still Expected to Show Up)
Lately, everything feels heavy. The news.The conversations.The questions our kids ask.The emotions we carry into classrooms, meetings, and dinner tables. As both an educator and a parent, I’ll be honest…
Recalculating
Have you ever noticed how GPS responds when we make a wrong turn? It does not panic.It does not shame you.It does not say sorry. It says one simple word.Recalculating…
You Don’t Need a New Year. You Need a New Way to Treat Yourself.
Every January brings pressure. New goals.New habits.A new version of yourself you’re apparently supposed to become overnight. But most people I know don’t step into a new year needing a…
