You’re Not In Their Race
Ever feel like you’re constantly running a race you didn’t even sign up for? You scroll through social media and see someone celebrating a big promotion, buying a new house, or launching an exciting project, and suddenly, the little wins in your own life don’t seem to matter as much. Trust me, I’ve been there (often times still am). But here’s the truth: comparing your journey to someone else’s is a waste of time, energy, and, more importantly, your joy.
When we get caught up in comparing ourselves to others, we lose sight of our own progress. Maybe you’re thinking, “Yeah, but they’re farther ahead than me.” Well, who says you’re supposed to be on the same timeline? Your path isn’t theirs, and your victories—no matter how big or small—are worth celebrating. Just because someone else is doing something great doesn’t mean you aren’t too.
Life isn’t a competition. It’s not about who crosses the finish line first. It’s about growing, learning, and becoming the best version of yourself. The only person you should compare yourself to is the person you were yesterday. And if today you’ve taken even one step forward—whether that’s in your personal life, your career, or your mental health—that’s progress worth acknowledging.
So next time you catch yourself measuring your achievements against someone else’s highlight reel, take a step back. Remind yourself: “I’m running my own race.” You’re not behind. You’re exactly where you need to be, doing exactly what you need to be doing. And that, my friend, is more than enough.
Keep running YOUR race. You’ve got this.
